tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678219108829664334.post7371764256397072768..comments2023-08-17T07:17:39.870-04:00Comments on OhSoSweetz: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?Sweetzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12295158209916052643noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678219108829664334.post-68954063673659929192010-12-13T20:02:36.636-05:002010-12-13T20:02:36.636-05:00Now being a cheater doesn't necessarily mean t...Now being a cheater doesn't necessarily mean that you don't love your partner either. It could mean that you just want to have a taste of the other side, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678219108829664334.post-74634315701084114652010-11-30T15:45:55.278-05:002010-11-30T15:45:55.278-05:00I used to think once a cheater always a cheater. B...I used to think once a cheater always a cheater. But I have changed my tune. I believe the reason we say that is more about a resolution we make to ourselves than an actual state of what makes a cheater. What I mean is, for ME, if a girl cheats on me, there is no turning back, no second chance, have fun begging for my forgiveness and understanding. However, I do no think this woman is doomed to cheat for the rest of her life. Simply that she won't cheat on me anymore. Just like everything else in life, some people will make a mistake and learn from it, others will thrive in their mistake and repeat it every chance they get. Don't get me wrong, in no way do I excuse the act of cheating. I strongly believe that if you're not happy in your relationship, get out! cheating is just the cowardly way of dealing with things. I'm sure one day I might be confronted with it (either because of temptation or problem in my relationship) but IF I cross the line I know I have nothing but myself to blame... the "other" woman would have a part in it too. That brings me to your other blog about attention whores (AW). I believe most of the time the "other" woman/man would be an AW... the ultimate goal, getting someone's attention alright. Anyways all of this to say that I don't believe anymore in once a cheater always a cheaterBrandonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678219108829664334.post-90526858258535160032010-11-18T13:08:19.334-05:002010-11-18T13:08:19.334-05:00Great Post !
I’m a firm believer of once a cheate...Great Post !<br /><br />I’m a firm believer of once a cheater always a cheater.<br />Sorry to all who’ve cheated once and have good intentions <br />I personally think that it is a character flaw, and contrary to popular belief it has NOTHING to do with the cheater’s partner.<br />If you are not happy in your current relationship well work on it or leave.<br />It is a selfish act and unless the cheater does a lot of soul searching and goes through huge personal growth, they will cheat again one way or another.<br />For the other party involve, you have to understand that fact, accept it, live with it or move to the next one, there are no grey zone in relationships.<br />ML.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com